In 2016, a $60,000 salary in California took home about $44,000 after federal and state income tax, Social Security, Medicare and state disability insurance. My rent in Los Angeles was $50,000 a year.
Every founder who raises money gets asked whether they have skin in the game. While I was raising for ShopSnap in 2015 and 2016, the question came with a number attached. Put a salary of more than $60,000 on the projections, and it means you have no skin in the game. I heard it over and over.
ShopSnap wasn’t a deck. It was a working commerce platform with zero transaction fees, and it had closed its first deal in 2014. I had written the software. I was paying for the hosting, the development team, and the flights and hotel rooms that got me into VC conference rooms. The money I was raising was for marketing and staff, which is what a working product needs to turn into a company.
It wasn’t my first time building commerce infrastructure, either. At Volusion I had built the backend provisioning systems that create stores and move them between servers, running on a workflow engine I’d originally written at Break.com, so by the time I started ShopSnap I knew exactly what it cost to keep a store platform online, and now the invoices came to me.
Run the math backward and it gets worse. Clearing $50,000 after tax in California that year took a salary of roughly $70,000. That covers the rent. It doesn’t cover food, health insurance, or a car in Los Angeles.
The standard defense of the $60,000 rule is that investors want founders hungry. A founder who pays himself a real salary supposedly has nothing to lose, and ramen is a virtue. That defense is lazy and it’s backwards. Skin in the game isn’t about how much the founder suffers. It’s about who eats the loss when the company fails. By that measure, the founder who wrote the product, paid the people who helped build it, and bought his own plane tickets to explain it to strangers had more skin at that table than anyone sitting across from him. The person asking the question had the least.
Even the Ramen Rule Pays the Rent
Nassim Nicholas Taleb wrote the book on the phrase, literally. Skin in the Game came out from Random House in 2018, and its whole argument is symmetry. Take the upside of a decision and you take the downside too, and anyone who collects the reward while someone else holds the risk has none. The publisher’s summary sorts people into two lists. Entrepreneurs are on the list of people who have skin in the game. Bankers and corporate executives are on the other one.
Silicon Valley’s own austerity rule doesn’t back the $60,000 number either. Paul Graham defined ramen profitable in 2009 as a startup that makes “just enough to pay the founders’ living expenses.” Living expenses. The most famous starvation standard in startups pays the founder’s rent. The number I kept hearing didn’t.
Nobody derived $60,000 from anything. It wasn’t a percentage of the round. It wasn’t tied to ShopSnap’s burn rate, or to what a hired CEO would cost, or to what an apartment cost in the city where the company was. It was a number that sounds like sacrifice.
You can argue that $50,000 was too much rent for a founder. Fine. Pick a cheaper apartment and the problem gets smaller without changing shape, because a salary still has to clear housing, health insurance and food after tax, and the rule didn’t care what any of those cost.
The rule has a practical problem too, and it lands on the investor. In 2013, Anandi Mani, Sendhil Mullainathan, Eldar Shafir and Jiaying Zhao published a study in Science showing that money worries measurably degrade cognitive performance. Sugarcane farmers in India tested worse before the harvest, when they were broke, than after it, when they’d been paid. Same farmers. Princeton’s write-up put the effect of financial preoccupation at roughly a 13-point drop in IQ, or a night without sleep. An investor who caps a founder’s pay below the rent is funding a CEO who spends part of every working day doing rent arithmetic instead of product work, and if the founder solves it with a consulting contract on the side, the company gets the founder’s nights and the client gets the founder’s best hours.
And $60,000 isn’t what venture-backed founders actually make once the money lands. When Kruze Consulting started publishing startup CEO pay from its clients’ payroll records in 2018, the average was $130,000. This year the seed-stage average is $153,000. Boards with investors sitting on them approve those salaries. The $60,000 number lives in the pitch meeting. It doesn’t survive to payroll.
The Other Side of the Table Brought One Percent
Venture funds charge their limited partners a management fee, customarily around 2% of committed capital a year whether or not the money has been invested yet, and keep a share of the profits, usually 20%, as carried interest once the fund makes money. The general partners are expected to put some of their own money in alongside the LPs. In venture the traditional number is 1%, and ILPA, the trade group for limited partners, still calls a 1% general partner contribution standard practice, particularly among venture funds.
Nobody picked 1% because it measures conviction. Morgan Lewis’s fund formation deskbook traces it to tax advice. A 1% stake made sure the general partner was treated as a partner, so its carry got capital gains treatment. The check-the-box regulations made that unnecessary in 1997. The 1% stayed.
It doesn’t even have to be cash. Under a management fee waiver, the general partner gives up part of the fee the LPs were already paying, counts the waived amount toward its commitment as a “deemed” contribution, to use the lawyers’ word, and takes a priority share of future profits in its place. Treasury and the IRS proposed regulations aimed at those arrangements in July 2015. ILPA’s own principles say the GP’s commitment should be contributed in cash rather than through fee waivers. The principles are voluntary.
In 2016, 253 U.S. venture funds raised $41.6 billion, a ten-year high, according to the NVCA. At the customary 2%, that’s about $832 million a year in management fees on one year’s worth of funds, collected whether or not a single portfolio company ever works. If those managers committed the traditional 1%, they put about $416 million into their own funds, total. One year of fees paid them twice their skin.
That isn’t a quirk of one vintage. When Andrew Metrick and Ayako Yasuda modeled the pay of 238 venture and buyout funds raised between 1993 and 2006, about two-thirds of the managers’ expected revenue came from fixed components that don’t move with performance. The Kauffman Foundation spent twenty years as a limited partner in nearly 100 venture funds, and when it published the results in 2012, 62 of those funds had failed to beat what the public markets would have returned after fees and carry, and only 20 had beaten a public-market equivalent by more than 3% a year, half of them funds that started investing before 1995. The fees got paid anyway.
The usual reply is that a VC’s real skin is reputation, because a manager who loses money can’t raise the next fund. Kauffman found a persistent pattern of inflated early returns that can be used to raise the next fund. The reputation gets marked up before anyone knows if it’s earned.
The money in those funds comes from pension funds, endowments, foundations and other institutions, and that’s who holds the downside. Taleb has a name for a position that collects the upside and leaves the downside with someone else. He calls it a Bob Rubin trade. Carried interest is 20% of the gain and none of the loss beyond the 1%, and the management fee pays either way.
I paid for my own flight. Everything in the conference room I flew to, from the lease to the partner’s salary, came out of a management fee. The person explaining skin in the game was the only one in the room spending somebody else’s money.
The Salary Lecture Is Part of the Negotiation
The lecture isn’t diligence. Diligence asks whether the product exists, whether customers pay for it and whether the founder can ship, and ShopSnap could answer all three. The lecture has a different job. It makes the founder feel greedy for wanting to make rent, so that by the time a term sheet shows up with its liquidation preference, its option pool and its board seats, whatever is in it feels like generosity.
It costs the investor nothing and the founder plenty. In 2015, DocSend and Harvard Business School professor Tom Eisenmann looked at seed rounds that actually closed. The average founder contacted 58 investors, took 40 meetings and needed about twelve and a half weeks to raise $1.3 million. Investors spent an average of 3 minutes and 44 seconds on the deck. For a founder who doesn’t live down the street from the fund, forty meetings is a travel budget. Mine came out of my own pocket. The three minutes and forty-four seconds came out of the management fee.
Founders know the rest of the routine. “Keep us posted” is the cheapest option in finance. It commits the investor to nothing and keeps a free look at your company for as long as he likes. “Come back when you have traction” is a sentence with no number in it. And the information flows one way. Kauffman’s report flagged potentially troubling asymmetries between what venture funds require from their portfolio companies and what they’re required to tell their own limited partners. A founder hands over his rent, his burn and his salary. The fund’s terms are confidential.
The salary question only travels one way across that table.
A Smaller Slice Comes With Fewer Votes
The bigger-pie line is the one investors save for the moment a founder notices the dilution. Better to own 10% of a watermelon than 100% of a grape. A smaller share of a much bigger company is worth more than all of a small one, so stop counting points and start building.
There’s an honest version of that argument, and it has data behind it. In Noam Wasserman’s analysis of 457 private tech companies, founders who gave up some control tended to end up with more valuable equity than the ones who kept it. He framed it as the choice between being rich and being king. The honest version is a trade. You give up control for a better shot at a bigger number.
The version VCs sell leaves out two things. The first is the money. A bigger pie built on bigger rounds comes with a bigger preference stack, and preferred stock gets its money back before a founder’s common sees a dollar, which is how a company can sell for a number that makes the news and still pay its founders nothing. Robert Hall and Susan Woodward studied two decades of venture-backed companies and found that the founder’s reward was zero in almost three-quarters of the outcomes. The newer NBER data is worse, and I went through it in “Most VC-Backed Founders Exit With Nothing. Here is What to do About it.” About 84% of founders finished with nothing, and the top 2% collected 80% of everything founders were paid. The pie got bigger. Somebody else ate it.
The second thing is the vote. Ownership isn’t only a claim on the proceeds. It’s how many votes you have when the board decides who runs the company. Carta’s data says only one founding team in five still owns half of its company after the Series A, and the median team owns about 36%. Investors as a group usually take majority control after the Series B. From then on the founder CEO is an employee who owns common stock, and a board can fire an employee by majority vote.
They use it. Wasserman found that by the time startups were three years old, half the founders were no longer CEO, and fewer than a quarter led their companies’ IPOs. The Harvard Gazette’s summary of his work says nearly 80% of founders are forced out before the company goes public.
They don’t always need the vote. In June 2017, five investors including Benchmark sent Travis Kalanick a letter titled “Moving Uber Forward” that demanded he step down, and he did. Benchmark, by its own count, owned 13% of Uber and controlled 20% of the vote. Kalanick’s later court filing said Benchmark’s principals handed him a draft resignation letter and told him he had hours to sign it. You can believe he had it coming. Plenty of people do. The mechanism doesn’t check. Thirteen percent and four allies removed the founder of Uber, and a founder holding 36% and a minority of the board has less to stand on.
What happens to your stake after you’re out is its own lesson. Unvested shares go back to the company at roughly what you paid for them, which for a founder is close to nothing. Your replacement gets a fresh grant from a refreshed option pool, and the refresh dilutes you. What you keep is common stock, standing behind every dollar of preference. That’s why the exit piece spends so much time on vesting credit, double-trigger acceleration and board seats.
The pie pitch assumes you’ll still work there when it gets cut.
Reasonable Skin in the Game Fits on One Page
I’d sign this standard from either side of the table.
Start by counting what’s already in. A founder who wrote the product and paid for its hosting, its developers and the travel to pitch it has contributed capital. Put a number on it, with receipts, and convert it into the round on the same terms as the investors’ money. If an investor’s cash is skin, so is the founder’s.
Set the salary by arithmetic instead of symbolism. The floor is what it costs the founder to live where the founder actually lives, after tax, covering housing, health insurance, food and getting around, with no savings rate and nothing that makes the company optional. An investor can check that number in an afternoon. The ceiling is what the company would pay a hired executive to do the same job, which Kruze’s payroll data puts at $153,000 for a seed-stage CEO this year. Anything between the floor and the ceiling is a salary. Anything below the floor is a founder shopping for side work.
Whatever the founder takes below the ceiling is an investment, so book it as one. Accrue the difference as deferred salary, payable at the next priced round or at a sale, or convert it into the same preferred stock the investors are buying, at their price. A founder who takes $90,000 when the job pays $150,000 is putting $60,000 a year into the company. Over a two-year runway that’s $120,000, and it belongs on the cap table like any other check.
In my case the floor started around $70,000 before I’d bought a single grocery, because that’s what it took to clear the rent. Under this standard, the gap between that floor and the market rate for the job would have counted as capital I was putting in, on top of the code, the hosting and the developers. Under the $60,000 rule, none of it counted.
Then run the same test on the other side, which the limited partners already wrote down. ILPA’s Private Equity Principles have said since at least 2011 that management fees should be based on reasonable operating expenses and reasonable salaries, that the general partner should hold a substantial equity interest contributed in cash rather than through fee waivers, and that the best practice is a waterfall returning all contributions plus a preferred return to the LPs before anyone collects carry. That’s skin in the game for a VC, written by the people whose money VCs invest. ILPA’s own glossary still describes 1% as standard practice in venture.
By that standard I had skin in the game in 2016, and so does every founder who pays their own way into a pitch meeting.
ShopSnap is still running. It’s on .NET 10 now, with Cara, the AI shopping assistant I built, working its storefronts. None of the investors who explained skin in the game to me own a piece of it. Ten years later, most of them are still too scared of Shopify to back anything that competes with it. That’s a lot of caution from people who get paid 2% a year to take risks with somebody else’s money.
I’m still paying for the hosting.
About the Author
Gal Ratner is the founder of ShopSnap, a zero-transaction-fee commerce platform he wrote, paid for and still runs, now on .NET 10 with Cara, the agentic shopping assistant he built for its storefronts. Before ShopSnap he built the backend provisioning systems behind Volusion’s stores. He has spent nearly thirty years building and shipping production software on the Microsoft and .NET stack, for clients including Microsoft, Sony, Rockstar Games, 2K Games, Best Buy, and Allegiant Air. He was the sixth employee at Break.com during its run as one of the largest entertainment sites on the web, and a finalist for the Los Angeles Business Journal’s CTO of the Year.
He is Chief Architect at Prana Entertainment, an enterprise software and AI consultancy based in Las Vegas, and the founder and CTO of Inverted Software and WhiteStar Labs. His current work is agentic AI in production: MCP servers, the Microsoft Agent Framework, SQL Server 2025 vector search, and the open-source diagnostics tooling behind PLogger. He writes about software, AI and the money behind them the way a practitioner sees it, bullish on what the tools can actually do and allergic to the marketing wrapped around them.
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